Performance Evaluation

When you take a long time, you're slow.
When your man takes a long time, he's thorough.

When you don't do it, you're lazy.
When your man doesn't do it, he's too busy.

When you make a mistake, you're an idiot.
When your man makes a mistake, he's only human.

When you're out of the home, you're wandering around.
When your man is out of the home, he's on important business.

When you're on phone call for long, you're wasting time.
When your man is on a call, he's on essential conversation.

When you sleep for long, you are irresponsible.
When your man wakes up late, he's really tired.

the list does not end here.. but i don't want to drag it further.. sample is enough. So ending it here..

Well.. this is about the majority case.. If you say , its the other way in your case, just replace the "man" with "woman" and "he's" by "she's"

--Dhanesh Amma

Scary dreams...

Dreams come from memories in your mind . Your brain mixes up the memories and comes up with a dream.

I'm not going to talk about Sigmund Freud's/ Carl Jung's/ anybody's theory on dreams here.. I am just going to share about couple of my dreams which i have had in my midnight sleep and possible reasons for getting such dreams. Who knows... you might also have got few of those like me or got all of the dreams which I state here.

Case 1 : Missing hall ticket for exam / Late for exam hall / Present on a day where your exam is over previous day

Hold on... I am not talking about this dream you had while you did your schooling or graduation. These dreams do come when you are in a profession.. where you do not have these kind of attempts in your past education history

I used to wonder, when i am not doing any part time course and not having any exam in coming weeks, whey I get such dream? I could assume that this type of dream is nothing but we are stressed too much in office or nearing deliverables at work place.

Case 2 : Bunch of hair comes from your head / All teeth are broken and fall out / losing your senses like becoming deaf , blind etc

hmm...either you are too much worried about yourself or stressed out too much which will cause these kind of dreams..

Case 3 : animals or insect bite you / animals talk and threaten you...

When i mention here about animal bite, some take it spritual and want to seek temple for remedies though it came in dream..May be this case of dream could could be an effect of watching too much animated cartoon movies like narnia / ice age etc..

Though one gets scared on having such dreams, we will feel much relieved on waking up.. because they were just dreams and we are safe..

--Dhanesh Amma

(Funny!) Leave Letter...

Writing a letter had been exercise in school days.

I am sure, everybody who had schooling whould have practiced the following

* Leave letter (Sick, injury etc)
* Leave letter (attending events)
* Letter to uncle for thanking him for sending you a birthday gift
* Letter to a company for sending you a parcel by VPP
* Letter to a friend telling your vacation experience in a tourist spot


Also every body whould have used the learnt knowledge in applying in real scenario.

Recently I came across a new situation where a student might want to take leave for attending his fathers marriage and her leave letter below.

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Respected Sir

Most respectfully, I beg to state that my Father's marriage is scheduled to take place on 24th Aug., 2010. The marriage party is going to be held at Mumbai So, I shall not be able to attend the school for four days.

Kindly grant me leave for four days; from 23rd Aug. to 26th Aug. 2010.

My father wedding invitation is still in printing process and I shall provide you once it is ready.


Thanking you,

Yours obediently
Student Name
10th Std - 'A' section
Date: 01-Aug-2010


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It's good to see that kids are not getting affected by the breakage of relation between parents and they accept the new relation too.

But, I'm not sure why these kids are in side of Father.. is it the financial support they get or the power of Men in the society?

I've heard a statement.... "My children and your children are playing with our children"... Soon this might become a common statement in India too..

--Dhanesh Amma

What is a blog?

I recently came across few tamil/english blog sites where i came to know about many people who spend their half of their day in typing and posting contents in blog on a daily basis.

half of them were mainly the catchy news which comes in the news paper or magazines or movie review or about people in media. they just provide link or copy paste the contents.

There are few writers who gain constant readers via this blog/websites. They post their articles in their site and based on the comments from the readers, they modify and publish the books easily.

Blog is a easy way to gain publicity, at least among the people who have access to computers/mobile phone with internet connection.

Have you ever tried to write a article and get it posted in a magazine? you will have to wait endlessly for getting it published.

But this is achieved at free of cost if you have basic knowledge about creation of blog and posting contents.

There are people who are registering their blog in the sites and having meeting with their co blogger. Very funny.

There were writers in the past who want to stay away from other writers and readers. But these bloggers meet and post articles with photos explaining what happened in the meeting.

The life time of some blog sites are also short. They come in, very active for a year or two and disappear.

Now, the blog readers are the ones who waste their time by reading such blogs.

Technology is a boon in few ways, at the same time curse in many ways. It is we who have to use it for boon than to get in to the trap of curse.

Ahh... now that explains why there is no post from me for the past two months.. I think twice before writing something, If it is really worth spending time in typing and posting.

Let my blog be filled with articles which will give some message to readers than just being a source of entertainment.

--Dhanesh Amma

அவனுக்கு தலையே இல்ல...

தலைப்பை பார்த்து யாரும் பயப்பட வேண்டாம்.. நிஜ மனிதனை பார்த்து சொல்லப்பட்டது அல்ல இது
எங்க தாணு குட்டி துணி கடையில் வைத்துள்ள தலை இல்லாத பொம்மைகளை பார்த்து சொன்னது.

அது நிஜம் அல்ல பொம்மை என்று சொல்லலாமா என்று யோசித்து, வேண்டாம் என்று அமைதியாகி விட்டேன்..
பின்ன... அந்த பொம்மை வாங்கிதாவென்று கேட்டா என்ன பண்றது ?

-- தானேஷ் அம்மா

Goat and Kid

A kid under shelter of Goat on a hot sunny day.

That's why it is told in tamil as, அன்னையும் பிதாவும் முன்னறி தெய்வம் - "Parents are living gods"

Advance Fathers day wishes to Fathers and expecting Fathers. (Third sunday of June)

--Photo clicked by my sister at Rameshwaram - Ramar patham temple

Danger: Smoking Daddy's kiss

புகை பிடிக்கும் பழக்கம் உள்ளவர்களின் வாய் தொண்டையில் ஏராளமான பாக்டீரியாக்கள் தொற்றி இருக்கும். இதில் “மீனிங் கோகுஸ்” என்ற ஆபத்தான பாக்டீரியாவும் ஒன்று.

புகை பிடிக்கும் பழக்கம் உடையவர்கள் யாருக்காவது முத்தம் கொடுத்தால் இந்த பாக்டீரியா உடனே அவர்களையும் தொற்றி கொள்ளும். இது உயிருக்கு ஆபத்து ஏற்படுத்தக்கூடிய பாக்டீரியா ஆகும்.

அதுவும் குழந்தைகளுக்கு முத்தம் கொடுத்தால் அந்த பாக்டீரியாக்கள் எளிதில் குழந்தைகளை தொற்றி அவர்களுக்கு ஆபத்தை ஏற்படுத்தி விடுகிறது.

பாக்டீரியா தொற்றுதல் மிகவும் அதிகமாகிவிட்டால் 10-ல் 1 குழந்தைக்கு மரணம் ஏற்படும் வாய்ப்பு உள்ளது.

எனவே புகை பிடிக்கும் தந்தைகள் குழந்தைகளுக்கு முத்தம் கொடுப்பதை தவிர்க்கவேண்டும் என்று இங்கிலாந்து பேராசிரியர் ராபர்ட் பூயி எச்சரிக்கிறார்.

மன அழுத்தத்தை போக்கி கொள்ள புகை பிடிப்பதாக பலர் சொல்வார்கள். ஆனால் புகை பிடிப்பவர்களுக்கு மன அழுத்தம் அதிகரிக்கும் என்று ஒரு ஆய்வு தெரிவிக்கிறது.



Message source: Maalaimalar news paper

It is also said that not only smokers, people who inhale the smoke from air also gets affected.

Smokers - They spoil their and also their family members life.

It is nothing but as said by a tamil statement :

sondha selavula sooniyam vachukkurathu...


--Dhanesh Amma