Marriage and Arundhati star

Hindu marriage ceremony has a event where bridegroom shows Arundhati to his wife.

Arundhati is one of the double star. It is attached to the star Vasishtha. Double Stars (visual binaries) are two stars that move around together gravitationally bound to each other.


Like this double Star, the couple are expected to be together for ever.

Hmmm.. Good one.. But stars are possible for view only in the night or rather after evening and till dawn. But people of this generation do see the star under the hot sun after tying the holy knot.

I know.. readers might be interested what could have happend at my case..
[Our marriage happened in a hall. We could only see the concrete ceiling with white paint only. We had so much of rituals to be followed and people were not ready to go out to open sun to have a look at the sky.  What's the use ? No one would be able to identify a star when the sun is glowing hot. I was asked to look at the ceiling and my uncle asked if i see the star.. i smiled back. he told Arundhati is not just one star you will see two stars. I know you cannot see in ceiling, but the myth is followed that we see the star and should live like the couple. I nodded my head. ( that I understand the point) ]

When everybody knew that a star could not be seen in a ceiling why do they ask us to see?

They could have taken a video of the twin stars and show us at the time in an electronic gadget.

In fact they just tell us about the star and ask us watch out in evening.



--Dhanesh Amma

Life style changes... (part 2)

Read: Life style changes (part1) here.

Our life has entered to more comfort zone with the arrival of machines for everything. like cleaning , washing , cooking etc. We were able to save considerable amount of time. With the arrival of ready made food available at the market, life has gone more comfortable even. 

We have got disadvantages too with the life style changes. It has become a culture , cook for a day and eat for more days since we are storing things in fridge.Pediatric for my son said, please give fresh cooked food for kids. Don't give old items stored in fridge.

My father was telling, he did not have any vaccines those days. True. Even I did not have these many vaccines which my kids are having. Check out here for the current list of vaccines for kids in India.

Now, they are working on vaccines for cancer. Next generation will have more number of vaccines. Kids are the ones to suffer with the lengthy vaccine list.
Still, with the combined vaccines for multiple diseases like the one explained here , list is becoming comparatively less.

We can have a more comfortable life, if people give importance to keeping surrounding clean. But who really cares of it. People think, as long as their house is clean, they are safe. 

People blame the corporation staff for not doing their duty properly because of which lot of flies and mosquitoes are there. But who throws those garbage on street ,drainage and on road, instead of dust bin ?

They say health is wealth. It is possible with proper food and  clean surrounding.

P.S: Post completed with Part 2 with the above punch line

-- Dhanesh Amma

குட்டி குறும்பு [7] - விளையாட வா அத்தை...

 தாணு , அப்பா , அத்தை சாப்பிட்டு கொண்டிருந்தார்கள். வழக்கம் போல தாணு பாதி வயிறு நிரம்பியதும் எழுந்தாச்சு.

அத்தை சாப்பிட்டதும் ஊருக்கு கிளம்பனும். அதனால அத்தை சீக்கிரம் சாப்பிடு என்று சொல்லி கொண்டிருந்தான். எதுக்கு தம்பி என்றதும் , என் கூட விளையாட என்று சொன்னான்.

அப்பாவும் , அத்தையும் பொறுமையாக சாப்பிட்டு கொண்டிருந்தார்கள். அப்பா , அத்தையிடம் சாப்பிட்டதும் கிளம்பலாம். லேட் ஆக போகுது என்றார்.

அதை கேட்டு , இரு நிமிடம் அமைதியாக இருந்த தாணு, "அத்தை அப்பாகிட்ட சாப்பிட கொடுத்துரு . அப்பா சாப்பிடட்டும். அது வரை நாம விளையாடலாம்" என்றான். 

அவனால் சாப்பிட முடியாத போது , நானோ அவன் அப்பவோ அதை சாப்பிட்டு வேஸ்ட் பண்ணாததை கவனித்து , அத்தை சாப்பிடாட்டி வேஸ்ட் ஆகிடும்னு அப்பா சாப்பிடுவார்னு சொல்லிட்டான். ஆனால் அத்தை இன்னும் சாப்பிட்டு முடிக்கவில்லை என்பது அவனுக்கு புரியவில்லை.

-- தானேஷ் அம்மா

Crow calls

A crow was making a call , when Dhanu was chatting with me. He told me, "Ma, crow is making sound"

I replied him, "Yes. It is calling another fellow crow by making sound as 'kaw kaw'"

I was thinking that, he would then ask me a question, why it is calling another crow.
However he responded, "No amma. you are wrong. it is not calling 'kaw kaw', it is calling "Kraw Kraw".

He was not ready to accept crow will call as kaw kaw. He said, "listen carefully again. It is saying 'Kraw Kraw' only.

In fact, during my child hood days, I too have observed and thought , crow is making sound as Kraw, may be that's why it is referred as Crow in english but we tamilians refer as Kagam or Kakka in tamil.

On a second thought, Instead of  "kaw kaw" what if we call as "kraw kraw" ? I am sure crow would be right in front of us to pick the food. Readers may give a try if you are not ready to believe me.

Crow has different types of calling based on situation. refer to the link here  for hearing its different calls

Conversation with Dhanu on Crow made me recollect the happenings during my school days.

 We used to feed crows and few became regular visitors to our home at morning 8AM when we have breakfast. They would keep calling till we open back door and give food. We give some snack be it a papad or  biscuit when food is not ready or available at home.

Appa would keep food for crows and sit for breakfast. When we have food, few crows would come and empty the food we had kept. It would keep calling us to give more. Appa , who does not will to move out to keep food, would toss out the idly pieces. Some crow would pick and fly away, some would pick and sit on compound wall and eat.  One crow would just pick the food , come to door and sit on the wooden frame on floor and eat. I am sure it was ready to come inside the room and dine with us.

We cannot just like that identify a crow from group of crows, But crows can identify us easily.

The crow had well acquaintance with us and became a pet bird. It would not fear to come near us and pick the food from our hands. I even shot a photo of my sister feeding that crow.

--Dhanesh Amma

gmail and dots

Do you guys know that gmail does not treat the dot as a character in the email address ?

say if your email address is : my.pet.name@gmail.com

then mypetname@gmail.com , mypet.name@gmail.com , m.y.p.e.t.n.a.m.e@gmail.com are all your email address only.

check out the support link from google for details.



--Dhanesh Amma

Whom you want to be?

This happened when I was doing seventh standard in school. One day class teacher while about to leave the class in evening asked  "like whom you want to become?" There would be one or two in a class, who would be right there to speak out an answer when teacher asks a question. Immediately one girl said, i want to become engineer.

Teacher then told, My question is not what you want to become, but "like whom you want to become". Students were quiet for few seconds. Teacher then asked us to think and come with an answer on the question tomorrow.

next day after prayer, she asked us to answer in order from first bench. I had only couple of students before me as I was also seated in front bench. One of the disadvantage with the first bench. You cannot listen to rest of class answers and change your answer in last minute if you find others answer better.

First one told, I want to become an engineer like my father, next one told, I want to do service like Mother Teressa, It was my turn and  I answered "I want to become teacher" . My class teacher told, i want you to point a person.

Ah I know. My mother is a teacher, few of my aunts were teachers. I have also observed some dozen teachers right from my kinder garden. But why I should I point someone ? I don't have to become a teacher like them. I have my own style. But this teacher wont allow me to sit, unless I point some person. So I told , I want to become a college teacher like my mother. Teacher said "ok". Hmm.. I can sit now. My turn is over and I can watch my fellow classmates.

There came many answer pointing some one for  scientist, astronaut , sports person, singers, musicians etc etc. Towards the end, one tall girl said " I want to be myself". Class teacher smiled and said. This is what I was looking for. One should have their own originality. We should not try to be like others. But be unique as yourself. Then she asked the student who gave this answer to her. Classmate kept smiling and said again and again that she is telling of her own. I don't know if it is true or not, or the teacher believed it or not, that's off the topic.

When I was about to complete my degree I understood that teaching is not my cup of tea. Few suggested that teaching is best suited for females, fixed working time and summer vacation etc etc and I should consider doing MPhil or MEd. I did not want to do those. I had an option of becoming Research Assistant  and take up teaching to students. However my resume was rejected as I did not furnish the degree certificate/ provisional certificate for attending interview. That closed the option of me teaching for students temporarily too.

I respect the teaching profession and teachers.

On this teachers day, I pray God for the well being of my beloved teachers.

--Dhanesh Amma

குட்டி குறும்பு [6] - பெட் , பில்லோ இருக்கா அம்மா ?

சென்ற வருடம் இதே சமயம் , தீபக் என் வயிற்றில் ஆறு மாதம். தாணுவின் சின்ன உலகத்தில், அம்மா அப்பா என்ற இருவரை தவிர மூன்றாவதாக தம்பி அல்லது தங்கை உண்டு என்பதை நாங்கள் அவனுக்கு சொல்லி கொண்டு இருந்தோம்.

உனக்கு தம்பி பாப்பா வேணுமா இல்ல தங்கச்சி பாப்பா வேணுமா என்றால் எப்பவும் தம்பி என்றே பதில் வரும். ஒரு நாள் பாப்பா என்ன பண்றாரு என்று கேட்டான். நான் பாப்பா தூங்குது. சின்ன பாப்பா இல்ல ரொம்ப நேரம் தூங்கும் என்றேன். உடனே "உள்ளே பெட் பில்லோ எல்லாம் இருக்கா அம்மா ? " என்றான்.

ஒரு விநாடி யோசித்த நான் , இருக்கு தம்பி. உள்ள மெத்து மெத்துன்னு தான் இருக்கும் என்றேன்.

எப்படி எல்லாம் யோசிக்கிறாங்க இந்த காலத்து பிள்ளைகள்..

-- தானேஷ் அம்மா